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What does it mean?
Helping others with their pain helps you heal your own.
In plain terms
When you help someone else feel better, you feel better too.
What can you take from it?
Focus on easing others' pain to ease your own.

Where it applies

  • emotional distress
  • therapy
  • community support

Putting it to work

  • offer help to others
  • practice compassion

Questions to consider

  • How does helping others affect you?
  • What pain are you holding on to?

Another view

Sometimes personal healing requires direct self-focus instead.

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