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What does it mean?
Judgment consumes energy that could be used for understanding and love.
In plain terms
Judging takes time away from loving.
What can you take from it?
Stop judging to make space for love.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • parenting
  • friendships

Putting it to work

  • pause before criticizing
  • prioritize understanding

Questions to consider

  • How often do you judge?
  • What stops you from loving?

Another view

Sometimes boundaries require judgment.

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