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What does it mean?
Human activity tries to make permanent experiences that are only valuable because they change. Trying to hold onto joy kills the joy.
In plain terms
Joy exists because it changes, not stays same.
What can you take from it?
Accept change as essential.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • career
  • hobbies

Putting it to work

  • embrace change
  • let go

Questions to consider

  • What do you want to keep?
  • How does change help?

Another view

Stability is sometimes good.

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