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What does it mean?
Loving more deeply exposes us to greater sorrow.
In plain terms
The more you love, the more you might hurt.
What can you take from it?
Love increases vulnerability to pain.

Where it applies

  • falling in love
  • grief
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • understanding heartbreak
  • valuing connection

Questions to consider

  • Is love worth the pain?
  • How does love change you?

Another view

Love can also bring joy without sorrow.

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