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Self-respect cannot be hunted. It cannot be purchased. It is never for sale. It cannot be fabricated out of public relations. It comes to us when we are alone, in quiet moments, in quiet places, when we suddenly realize that, knowing the good, we have done it; knowing the beautiful, we have served it; knowing the truth, we have spoken it.

Alfred Whitney Griswold#6

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Self-respect comes from internal alignment with values, not external validation or manipulation.
In plain terms
You earn self-respect by doing good, not by buying it or faking it.
What can you take from it?
Build self-respect through honest actions, not image management.

Where it applies

  • personal reflection
  • ethical decision making
  • career choices

Putting it to work

  • act on values
  • avoid self-deception
  • seek quiet moments

Questions to consider

  • When did you last feel true self-respect?
  • How do you know if you served the truth?

Another view

External recognition can sometimes reinforce internal self-respect.

More from Alfred Whitney Griswold

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  2. There will be certain things in a man that have to be won, not forced; inspired, not compelled.

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  3. A Socrates in every classroom.

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