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What does it mean?
People rarely complain about trivial matters when they are the ones benefiting or involved.
In plain terms
You don't mind the fuss when it benefits you.
What can you take from it?
Self-interest often blinds us to annoyance.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • self-reflection
  • workplace dynamics

Putting it to work

  • check your biases
  • analyze motives

Questions to consider

  • When did you ignore a problem because it helped you?
  • How does self-interest color your judgment?

Another view

It assumes everyone acts out of self-interest.

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