That girls should not marry for money we are all agreed. A lady who can sell herself for a title or an estate, for an income or a set of family diamonds, treats herself as a farmer teats his sheep and oxen- makes hardly more of herself, of her own inner self, in which are comprised a mind and a soul, than the poor wretch of her own sex who earns her bread in the lowest state of degradation.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Marrying for money is compared to selling oneself like livestock, degrading the soul.
- In plain terms
- Selling yourself for money or status is degrading.
- What can you take from it?
- Marriage should not be a financial transaction.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is money ever a valid reason to marry?
Another view
Financial stability in marriage can be a valid concern.
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