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That girls should not marry for money we are all agreed. A lady who can sell herself for a title or an estate, for an income or a set of family diamonds, treats herself as a farmer teats his sheep and oxen- makes hardly more of herself, of her own inner self, in which are comprised a mind and a soul, than the poor wretch of her own sex who earns her bread in the lowest state of degradation.

Anthony Trollope#42

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Marrying for money is compared to selling oneself like livestock, degrading the soul.
In plain terms
Selling yourself for money or status is degrading.
What can you take from it?
Marriage should not be a financial transaction.

Where it applies

  • arranged marriages
  • dating for status

Putting it to work

  • valuing inner qualities

Questions to consider

  • Is money ever a valid reason to marry?

Another view

Financial stability in marriage can be a valid concern.

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