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What does it mean?
Rules are useful, but love may dictate breaking them when they become tyrannical.
In plain terms
Obedience follows rules; love knows when to break them.
What can you take from it?
Balance respect for rules with compassionate judgment.

Where it applies

  • organizational leadership
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • evaluate rules through compassion

Questions to consider

  • When should love override a rule?
  • How do you decide which rules are tyrannical?

Another view

Risk of subjective justification for breaking rules.

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