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What does it mean?
Love is defined as the absence of fear, yet we often fear love itself.
In plain terms
Fear kills love, but we are often afraid of love.
What can you take from it?
Fear blocks love.

Where it applies

  • intimacy
  • relationships
  • trust

Putting it to work

  • facing vulnerability
  • building trust

Questions to consider

  • What are you afraid of when you love?
  • Does fear protect you or isolate you?

Another view

Healthy caution is sometimes needed to avoid harmful relationships.

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