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What does it mean?
When love is no longer hidden, it loses its excitement.
In plain terms
Love stops being pleasurable once it ceases to be a secret.
What can you take from it?
Cherish the mystery that fuels passion.

Where it applies

  • new relationships
  • affairs

Putting it to work

  • maintaining intrigue
  • surprise gestures

Questions to consider

  • Does secrecy enhance love for you?
  • How can openness coexist with excitement?

Another view

Secrecy can also breed distrust.

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