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After these matters we ought perhaps next to discuss pleasure. For it is thought to be most intimately connected with our human nature, which is the reason why in educating the young we steer them by the rudders of pleasure and pain; it is thought, too, that to enjoy the things we ought and to hate the things we ought has the greatest bearing on virtue of character. For these things extend right through life, with a weight and power of their own in respect both to virtue and to the happy life, since men choose what is pleasant and avoid what is painful; and such things, it will be thought, we should least of all omit to discuss, especially since they admit of much dispute.

Aristotle#59

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Pleasure and pain shape character and life choices deeply.
In plain terms
What we enjoy or avoid guides our character and happiness.
What can you take from it?
Pay attention to what gives you pleasure.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • self improvement
  • moral choices

Putting it to work

  • evaluate your sources of pleasure
  • teach children through rewards

Questions to consider

  • Does pleasure guide your choices?
  • How do you balance pain and joy?

Another view

Reason can override pleasure and pain at times.

More from Aristotle

  1. When people are friends, they have no need of justice, but when they are just, they need friendship in addition.

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  2. And happiness is thought to depend on leisure; for we are busy that we may have leisure, and make war that we may live in peace.

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  3. Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods.

    Permalink to quote #57

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