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What does it mean?
Losing a false belief is painful because it changes how you see reality.
In plain terms
Death of an illusion is very sad.
What can you take from it?
Accept losing illusions to grow.

Where it applies

  • relationship ending
  • career change
  • political awakening

Putting it to work

  • Face hard truths early
  • Rely on facts not hopes

Questions to consider

  • What illusion did you lose that hurt?
  • Is some blindness necessary for peace?

Another view

Sometimes illusions protect mental health better than truth.

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