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What does it mean?
Self-sabotage driven by anger destroys your own potential.
In plain terms
Spiting yourself harms your life.
What can you take from it?
Don't punish yourself for anger.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • manage anger
  • choose self-interest

Questions to consider

  • Who are you hurting with this anger?
  • Is it worth it?

Another view

Sometimes cutting losses is better than holding on to spite.

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