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What does it mean?
Life forces a choice between being alone and being shallow.
In plain terms
You can be lonely or vulgar, nothing else.
What can you take from it?
Seek depth, not superficiality.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • personal reflection

Putting it to work

  • cultivate authentic relationships
  • avoid empty trends

Questions to consider

  • What does authenticity mean to you?
  • Can one be both sociable and deep?

Another view

The dichotomy oversimplifies complex social experiences.

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