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What does it mean?
Valuing others' opinions too highly gives them undue power over you.
In plain terms
Giving too much weight to others' opinions honors them excessively.
What can you take from it?
Guard your self‑worth against external validation.

Where it applies

  • social media
  • peer pressure

Putting it to work

  • limit exposure to judgment
  • practice self‑validation

Questions to consider

  • When is it wise to heed others' advice?
  • How do you balance humility and confidence?

Another view

Some opinions are essential for growth and safety.

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