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What does it mean?
A reproach only hurts if it is accurate; if you know you don't deserve it, you can treat it with contempt.
In plain terms
Criticism only matters when it's deserved.
What can you take from it?
Recognize false blame and dismiss it.

Where it applies

  • performance reviews
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • evaluate criticism objectively
  • let go of undeserved blame

Questions to consider

  • How to differentiate constructive criticism from false reproach?
  • When should one accept blame?

Another view

May ignore constructive feedback that feels uncomfortable.

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