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What does it mean?
A person who never disagrees or expresses anger may avoid conflict but harms others by being passive.
In plain terms
Never fighting back can hurt others because you do not oppose bad actions.
What can you take from it?
Conflict avoidance can enable harm to others.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal dynamics
  • ethical leadership
  • workplace culture

Putting it to work

  • speak up against wrong
  • value healthy conflict
  • challenge passivity

Questions to consider

  • When is silence harmful?
  • What is the cost of politeness?

Another view

Some traditions value forbearance as a virtue.

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