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What does it mean?
If you cannot bear others, retire to yourself; if you cannot bear yourself, you cannot endure anything.
In plain terms
Withdraw to solitude if you dislike others; self tolerance is essential.
What can you take from it?
You must be able to tolerate yourself to be at peace.

Where it applies

  • stress management
  • loneliness
  • personal conflict

Putting it to work

  • practice solitude
  • reflect on values
  • reduce external friction

Questions to consider

  • Can you be alone with yourself?
  • Why do you dislike others?

Another view

Isolation can worsen self-loathing if unaddressed.

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