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Farewell, thou child of my right hand, and joy! My sin was too much hope of thee, loved boy. Seven years thou wert lent to me, and I thee pay, Exacted by thy fate, on the just day. O, could I lose all father now. For why Will man lament the state he should envy? To have soon 'scaped world's and flesh's rage, And, if no other misery, yet age! Rest in soft peace, and, asked, say here doth lie Ben Jonson his best piece of poetry: For whose sake, henceforth, all his vows be such, As what he loves may never like too much.

Ben Jonson#22

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About this quote

What does it mean?
A father mourns his son's death, acknowledging his own excessive hope and the inevitability of loss.
In plain terms
A father grieved his son who died young, accepting fate and his own sorrow.
What can you take from it?
Love involves risk and inevitable grief.

Where it applies

  • bereavement
  • family loss
  • funerals

Putting it to work

  • process grief
  • accept mortality
  • cherish moments

Questions to consider

  • How do you cope with the loss of someone you love?
  • What does grief teach you?

Another view

It idealizes early death as escape from worldly suffering.

More from Ben Jonson

  1. He that fears death, or mourns it, in the just, Shows of the resurrection little trust.

    Permalink to quote #21
  2. Thy praise or dispraise is to me alike; One doth not stroke me, nor the other strike.

    Permalink to quote #23
  3. There's reason good, that you good laws should make: Men's manners ne'er were viler, for your sake.

    Permalink to quote #20

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