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What does it mean?
Gloomy people should keep to themselves rather than spreading their grief to others.
In plain terms
Don't share your sadness with everyone else.
What can you take from it?
Keep personal sorrow private to avoid burdening others.

Where it applies

  • mental health
  • social gatherings
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • process emotions privately
  • respect social energy limits

Questions to consider

  • Is it selfish to share grief?
  • How much emotional burden is fair to place on others?

Another view

It stigmatizes those who need support during difficult times.

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