If a man be gloomy let him keep to himself. No one has the right to go croaking about society, or what is worse, looking as if he stifled grief.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Gloomy people should keep to themselves rather than spreading their grief to others.
- In plain terms
- Don't share your sadness with everyone else.
- What can you take from it?
- Keep personal sorrow private to avoid burdening others.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is it selfish to share grief?
- How much emotional burden is fair to place on others?
Another view
It stigmatizes those who need support during difficult times.
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