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What does it mean?
Grief is natural in the moment, but dwelling on it long-term is detrimental.
In plain terms
Feel sad briefly, but do not let it ruin your life.
What can you take from it?
Allow yourself to grieve briefly, then move forward.

Where it applies

  • loss
  • trauma
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • process grief quickly
  • avoid rumination
  • focus on healing

Questions to consider

  • How long is too long to grieve?
  • What helps you move past pain?

Another view

Some losses require long periods of processing.

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