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What does it mean?
Children possess the energy and drive to grow, but parents must guide their direction.
In plain terms
Kids have the energy, but parents need to guide them.
What can you take from it?
Provide guidance to channel a child's natural energy effectively.

Where it applies

  • toddler behavior
  • education
  • discipline

Putting it to work

  • set clear boundaries
  • channel energy positively

Questions to consider

  • Are you guiding too much or too little?

Another view

Children also need autonomy to develop their own sense of direction.

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