Every child senses, with all the horse sense that's in him, that any parent is angry inside when children misbehave and they dread more the anger that is rarely or never expressed openly, wondering how awful it might be.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Children can sense hidden anger from parents and fear the unexpressed emotion more than open anger.
- In plain terms
- Kids fear hidden anger more than anger they can see.
- What can you take from it?
- Expressing anger openly is less scary than hiding it.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you handle anger at home?
- What do you fear most from adults?
Another view
It assumes children always accurately interpret adult emotions.
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