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'Teddy - I suppose Mummy and Daddy are real, aren't they?' Teddy said, 'You ask such silly questions, David. Nobody knows what 'real' really means. Let's go indoors.' 'First I'm going to have another rose!' Plucking a bright pink flower, he carried it with him into the house. It could lie on the pillow as he went to sleep. Its beauty and softness reminded him of Mummy.

Brian Aldiss#47

ChildhoodComfortRealityParentsPerceptionSensory

About this quote

What does it mean?
Children seek reassurance about reality while adults dismiss the question, highlighting how sensory comfort defines reality for them.
In plain terms
Kids wonder if things are real but adults ignore it and focus on comfort.
What can you take from it?
Reality often feels like what comforts us most.

Where it applies

  • parenting moments
  • philosophical talk
  • comfort seeking

Putting it to work

  • validate children's questions
  • notice sensory comforts
  • question reality

Questions to consider

  • What makes something feel real to you?
  • How do you answer kids hard questions?

Another view

It simplifies deep philosophical questions about what is real.

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