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What does it mean?
The intention and manner behind a gift matter more than the gift itself.
In plain terms
How you give is more important than what you give.
What can you take from it?
Approach giving with sincerity and care.

Where it applies

  • gift giving
  • helping others
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • focus on delivery
  • consider receiver feelings

Questions to consider

  • How does your delivery affect how help is received?
  • What matters more to you, the act or the object?

Another view

Sometimes the practical value of the gift matters most.

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