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What does it mean?
Accepting reality as it is matters more than focusing on how it should be.
In plain terms
Look at what is happening instead of what you wish was happening.
What can you take from it?
Focus on reality rather than expectations.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal change
  • problem solving

Putting it to work

  • assess situations objectively
  • adjust expectations

Questions to consider

  • What are you refusing to accept?
  • How does 'what should be' affect you?

Another view

Vision of what should be drives progress.

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