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What does it mean?
To truly know something or someone, you must experience all their changing phases over time.
In plain terms
You cannot know a person or thing unless you see them in different times and seasons.
What can you take from it?
Judge people only after seeing them through many seasons.

Where it applies

  • judging friends
  • observing changes
  • building relationships

Putting it to work

  • wait before judging
  • observe over time
  • embrace change

Questions to consider

  • What seasons have you missed in others?
  • How does time change your view?

Another view

Sometimes quick judgments are necessary for safety or efficiency.

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