A sensible human once said, 'If people knew how much ill-feeling unselfishness occasions, it would not be so often recommended from the pulpit'; and again, 'She's the sort of woman who lives for others-you can always tell the others by their hunted expression.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Unselfishness can create guilt and resentment in others.
- In plain terms
- Being too selfless can make people feel bad or hunted.
- What can you take from it?
- Watch out for people whose sacrifice makes you feel indebted.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do people resent selfless acts?
- Have you felt guilty for someone's kindness?
Another view
It could discourage genuine acts of kindness.
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