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What does it mean?
We often fail to embody the behavior we demand from others in our daily lives.
In plain terms
We expect others to do what we ourselves fail to do.
What can you take from it?
Practice the standards you expect from others.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • interpersonal conflict
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • lead by example
  • audit your own actions

Questions to consider

  • Do you demand what you don't give?
  • What behavior do you expect?

Another view

It assumes intent rather than circumstance in failing to practice.

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