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What does it mean?
A man obsessed with appearances lacks naturalness and authenticity.
In plain terms
Someone obsessed with appearances lacks naturalness.
What can you take from it?
Naturalness is more important than perfect manners.

Where it applies

  • social etiquette
  • self-image

Putting it to work

  • be natural in company

Questions to consider

  • Are your manners natural or forced?

Another view

It conflates appearance with identity.

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