'Papa is a preferable mode of address,' observed Mrs General. 'Father is rather vulgar, my dear. The word Papa, besides, gives a pretty form to the lips. Papa, potatoes, poultry, prunes, and prism are all very good words for the lips: especially prunes and prism. You will find it serviceable, in the formation of a demeanour, if you sometimes say to yourself in company - on entering a room, for instance - Papa, potatoes, poultry, prunes and prism, prunes and prism.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Mrs. General teaches that specific words shape lip movement and perceived refinement.
- In plain terms
- Say fancy words to look elegant and refined.
- What can you take from it?
- Artificial behavior can signal social status.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is politeness performative?
- How much should we polish ourselves?
Another view
It values appearance over authenticity.
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