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What does it mean?
It is better to forget and smile than to remember and be sad.
In plain terms
Forget and be happy rather than remember and be sorrowful.
What can you take from it?
Choose happiness over lingering sadness.

Where it applies

  • grief
  • regret

Putting it to work

  • practice mindfulness
  • focus on present joys

Questions to consider

  • When is remembering beneficial?
  • Can forgetting be harmful?

Another view

Sometimes remembering can be healing, not just painful.

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