He with whom neither slander that gradually soaks into the mind, nor statements that startle like a wound in the flesh, are successful - may be called intelligent indeed.
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He who speaks without modesty will find it difficult to make his words good.
Permalink to quote #53 I am not one who was born in the possession of knowledge; I am one who is fond of antiquity, and earnest in seeking it there.
Permalink to quote #55 The ancients who wished to illustrate illustrious virtue throughout the Kingdom, first ordered well their own states. Wishing to order well their states, they …
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