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What does it mean?
One person escapes a situation while another suffers the emotional consequences.
In plain terms
Someone left safe while another suffers tears.
What can you take from it?
Escape can leave others behind in pain.

Where it applies

  • ending relationships
  • leaving difficult situations
  • family conflicts

Putting it to work

  • processing survivor guilt
  • supporting those left behind
  • making difficult choices

Questions to consider

  • Who gets left behind?
  • What does freedom cost?

Another view

Sometimes leaving is necessary for safety.

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