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What does it mean?
Being too perfect makes the speaker feel distant or missed.
In plain terms
Don't be too perfect or I might miss you more.
What can you take from it?
Flaws make people more relatable and connected.

Where it applies

  • comforting someone insecure
  • admitting fear of loss

Putting it to work

  • accepting imperfection
  • expressing vulnerability

Questions to consider

  • Does being perfect hurt your friendships?
  • What makes someone real to you?

Another view

It frames affection as dependent on imperfection.

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