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What does it mean?
Two lovers stand in a dreamlike state, disconnected from the crowd and indifferent to the content of their own conversation.
In plain terms
They talk without caring what they say because the important thing is just talking to each other.
What can you take from it?
Intimacy is often about presence rather than the words spoken.

Where it applies

  • in a crowd
  • during a date
  • talking privately

Putting it to work

  • deep listening
  • mindful talking
  • presence practice

Questions to consider

  • What matters more in a conversation: words or presence?
  • When do you feel most dreamlike?

Another view

It suggests words don't matter in intimacy, which overlooks the importance of communication.

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