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He who hopes to grow in spirit will have to transcend obedience and respect. He'll hold to some laws but he'll mostly violate both law and custom, and go beyond the established, inadequate norm. Sensual pleasures will have much to teach him. He won't be afraid of the destructive act: half the house will have to come down. This way he'll grow virtuously into wisdom.

Constantine P. Cavafy#3

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About this quote

What does it mean?
True spiritual growth requires breaking rules and challenging norms to gain wisdom.
In plain terms
To grow wise you must break old laws and customs.
What can you take from it?
Personal growth often requires breaking out of established routines.

Where it applies

  • seeking personal growth
  • questioning authority

Putting it to work

  • challenging norms
  • emotional maturity

Questions to consider

  • When is it right to break the rules?
  • What norms are holding you back?

Another view

Blind rebellion can be destructive without a clear purpose.

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