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I have since often observed, how incongruous and irrational the common temper of mankind is, especially of youth, to that reason which ought to guide them in such cases - viz. they are not ashamed to sin, and yet are ashamed to repent. Not ashamed of the action for which they ought justly to be esteemed fools, but are ashamed of the returning, which can only make them be esteemed wise men.

Daniel Defoe#16

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About this quote

What does it mean?
People often act irrationally by avoiding guilt for wrong actions but feeling shame about correcting them.
In plain terms
It is foolish to refuse to admit mistakes even when it would make you look wise.
What can you take from it?
Repentance restores honor while continuing sin does not.

Where it applies

  • personal growth
  • ethical decision making
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • admitting errors
  • seeking forgiveness
  • reflecting on actions

Questions to consider

  • When have you avoided correcting a mistake out of pride?
  • Does admitting fault feel harder than committing the error?

Another view

Some people may feel shame about repentance due to external stigma rather than internal guilt.

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