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About this quote

What does it mean?
Relying on powerful figures to fight your battles prevents you from addressing issues directly.
In plain terms
Do not let others fight your wars for you.
What can you take from it?
Take responsibility for your own conflicts.

Where it applies

  • activism
  • conflict resolution
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • solve problems directly
  • engage personally
  • avoid proxies

Questions to consider

  • What conflicts do you avoid?
  • Who fights for you?

Another view

Sometimes collective action requires delegates.

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