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What does it mean?
Social etiquette can hinder authentic romance.
In plain terms
Being too polite makes you a bad lover.
What can you take from it?
Authenticity matters more than manners in love.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • social behavior
  • dating advice

Putting it to work

  • dating advice
  • relationship building
  • social critique

Questions to consider

  • Do manners hurt love?
  • What makes a good lover?

Another view

It dismisses the value of good manners in relationships.

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