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What does it mean?
You cannot make people good unless you also try to make them happy, and you must be happy yourself.
In plain terms
To improve others, you must also make them happy and be happy yourself.
What can you take from it?
Focus on your own happiness before trying to help others.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • parenting
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • cultivate personal happiness
  • inspire others through example
  • prioritize well-being

Questions to consider

  • Are you happy enough to help others?
  • Does happiness lead to goodness?

Another view

Sometimes being happy doesn't make you able to help others.

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