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What does it mean?
Love cannot be bartered like money; using it as a tool harms both giver and receiver.
In plain terms
Bartering love loses its power.
What can you take from it?
Give love without expecting return.

Where it applies

  • church outreach
  • personal conflict

Putting it to work

  • practice unconditional love
  • avoid love as leverage

Questions to consider

  • What does unconditional love look like?
  • When might love be used strategically?

Another view

Strategic love can sometimes achieve positive social change.

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