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Here's a tip I've never used: I understand you can learn a great deal of girldom by reading Pride and Prejudice, and I own a copy, but I have never read it. I tried. It was given to me by a girl with a little not inside that read: What is in this book is the heart of a woman. I am sure the heart of a woman is pure and lovely, but the first chapter of said heart is hopelessly boring.

Don Miller#81

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About this quote

What does it mean?
A book can be meaningful to one person but boring to another regardless of its reputation.
In plain terms
Even a book meant to show the heart of a woman can feel dull to the reader.
What can you take from it?
Ignore hype and read what genuinely interests you.

Where it applies

  • choosing books
  • reading groups
  • gift giving

Putting it to work

  • trust your taste
  • avoid pressure to read

Questions to consider

  • Why did I expect to like this book?
  • What makes a book worth reading for me?

Another view

Some classics remain valuable despite initial boredom.

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