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I hear addicts talk about the shakes and panic attacks and the highs and lows of resisting their habit, and to some degree I understand them because I have had habits of my own, but no drug is so powerful as the drug of self. No rut in the mind is so deep as the one that says I am the world, the world belongs to me, all people are characters in my play. There is no addiction so powerful as self addiction

Don Miller#92

SelfEgoPerspectiveAddictionMental healthSelf perception

About this quote

What does it mean?
Self-addiction, where one believes they are the center of the world, is portrayed as the most powerful addiction, surpassing drugs.
In plain terms
Believing the world revolves around you is a deeper addiction than drugs.
What can you take from it?
Overcoming the belief that you are the center of the universe is vital.

Where it applies

  • conflict in relationships
  • workplace arrogance
  • personal stagnation

Putting it to work

  • challenge self-centered thoughts
  • seek feedback from others
  • practice empathy

Questions to consider

  • When do you prioritize yourself over others?
  • How does self-focus limit you?

Another view

Self-focus is required for initial development and confidence building.

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