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What does it mean?
As people age, they accumulate knowledge of potential failures, making it harder to feel completely happy without fearing consequences.
In plain terms
Growing older makes it hard to feel fully happy because you know what can go wrong.
What can you take from it?
Experience can dim pure joy by introducing fear of loss.

Where it applies

  • life transitions
  • parenthood
  • middle age

Putting it to work

  • mindfulness
  • gratitude practice
  • therapy

Questions to consider

  • Can you be happy without knowing risks?
  • Is protecting yourself from joy worth it?

Another view

Some people maintain happiness despite knowing risks.

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