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What does it mean?
Humans often struggle to understand themselves before aging turns them into bitter, isolated individuals.
In plain terms
We don't know ourselves until we get old and bitter.
What can you take from it?
Self-reflection should happen early in life.

Where it applies

  • midlife crisis
  • retirement
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • practice mindfulness
  • seek therapy

Questions to consider

  • When did you start knowing yourself?
  • How do you handle aging?

Another view

Some people mature gracefully without bitterness.

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