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What does it mean?
Human emotions and motivations are deep and difficult to fully understand.
In plain terms
People's feelings are hard to read like deep water.
What can you take from it?
You cannot easily judge what is inside a person.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal relationships
  • conflict
  • emotional situations

Putting it to work

  • practicing patience
  • listening deeply
  • avoiding assumptions

Questions to consider

  • What lies beneath the surface in your interactions?
  • How do you judge others' intentions?

Another view

This metaphor simplifies the complexity of human psychology into a single image.

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