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What does it mean?
You directly control your own actions in a relationship but influence the entire dynamic.
In plain terms
You control your half of the relationship but your actions affect the whole thing.
What can you take from it?
Focus on your actions to influence the relationship dynamic.

Where it applies

  • relationship maintenance
  • conflict

Putting it to work

  • own your actions
  • lead by example

Questions to consider

  • How much control do you have?
  • What influences your relationships?

Another view

Relationships require mutual participation for true change.

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