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Almost anybody can learn to think or believe or know, but not a single human being can be taught to feel : the moment you feel, you're nobody-but-yourself. To be nobody-but-yourself-in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else- means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.

E. E. Cummings#85

SelfAuthenticityFeelingsIndividualityResistance

About this quote

What does it mean?
Feeling is innate and unique to each person, requiring a lifelong fight to remain authentic.
In plain terms
You can be taught to feel, and staying true to yourself is hard.
What can you take from it?
Fight to stay true to yourself.

Where it applies

  • identity formation
  • social pressure

Putting it to work

  • stay true to feelings
  • resist conformity

Questions to consider

  • Are you yourself today?
  • How hard is it to be unique?

Another view

It underestimates the role of learning in identity.

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