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About this quote

What does it mean?
To be loved, be yourself rather than pretending to be someone else.
In plain terms
Be your true self to earn love.
What can you take from it?
Authenticity is key to being loved.

Where it applies

  • giving relationship advice
  • encouraging honesty
  • discussing self-worth

Putting it to work

  • counseling
  • self-help
  • letter writing

Questions to consider

  • Is it possible to be fully yourself and loved?
  • Does change betray authenticity?

Another view

It ignores that sometimes people need to grow beyond their current self.

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